Now that we have all been using our “Impeccable Words”, practicing Satya + Ahimsa (truthfulness and non-harming), and are expert at using our words to convey love and concern rather than hurt or dismay, it’s time to move on to another issue. Gossip. It is argued that gossip is healthy, that it is a natural form of communication and a way to move information around a community. Perhaps; but I think that the term Gossip has accrued negative connotations, and that we “gossip” the bad stuff and “share” the good. So share away! Spread the success of your neighbor’s children, compliment your yoga teacher in front of the whole class, bring the joy of a new baby to your friends at Starbucks. When a dubious thought bubbles to the surface, give it the test: Is it true? Is it kind? Then - the real litmus test for gossip - is it necessary?
Most importantly, remember the power of I'm sorry. We all make slips of the tongue or get caught up in gossip, and the best way to get out of such a mess is to apologize. Love means never neglecting to say I’m sorry.
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